I'd say the most common fear unconfident people have is the need for other's approval. When you give out the need for approval, people will sense that you are needy and unconfident. No one likes to be around these needy people. The need for approval is determined through the unconfident person's perception so what may seem like reality is in fact unreal. You think you need another person's approval, but confident people do not need this. When you rise above the need to be approved by other people your confidence will soar. Your u