This is very important for women to be pleasing to their husbands by their speech and the same applies to men as well towards their family members. But the point is Men are engaged in hard work while women are soft hearted and they can perform better in taking care of children and family with affection and care. Not that men can use harsh words all the time. But they have to use at times to put things in place at work and outside world and to rectify the faults and bad behaviour of children. By nature the speech of women are pleasing and for a person inflicted by the modes of nature it's poisonous and for a person who is well-situated in Krishna Consciousness, he remains undisturbed by the pleasing speech but sees Krishna in this pleasing quality of women.
This is the culture for human beings and it needs to be revived. This is also one of the seven mission statements of the Hare Krishna Movement. Cultural programs in India are not new. We can see the presentation of Vedic culture/Indian culture in the Festival of India programs conducted by HH.Indradyumna swami across the world. When animal culture is annihilated people become peaceful and happy. In the present situation there's false propaganda that unlimited sex life will make everyone happy. Actually it's limited and miserable in everyway to those involved. All the marketing programs are based on this principle of exploiting people with this tactic. "Sarva Sukhno Bavantu", Let everyone become happy by practising the vedic culture and Krishna consciousness.
In the past we see there are numerous feminine personalities who used their pleasing voice to praise the glories of the Lord. And in the present also there are exalted personalities who sing very nicely for the pleasure of the Lord. Once when Lord Caitanya heard the the Gita Govinda being sung so nicely, he kept running to embrace the singer in ecstasy. Mahaprabhu was running at high speed towards the voice singing Gita Govinda for Lord Jagannath. But Govinda knew it was a woman singing and Govinda brought back Lord Caitanya to His senses that the singer is a woman and then the Lord appreciated Govinda saying,"Govinda you saved me"
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Dinesh
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Dinesh
Blog:http://dinesh-krsna.blogspot.com
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